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Barbara Vhengedza From My Heart
From My Heart is a platform created for you to share your issues and get practical assistance. Together we can create brighter lives and happier people, transforming mind sets one day at a time. Send your heart to heart message to Tete Barbara and read her responses.
Dear Tete
I am a 29-year-old girl with so many dreams and aspirations. I want to travel the world and see the beautiful wonders of this world. I am about to complete my degree and trouble has began scratching my world. My mum and her friends have begun trying to set me into their plans. A suitable suitor has been found for me. This is ridiculous! I do not even like him. I do not want anyone to marry me at the same time I want my mother happy.
Help, I am about to burst.
Tete Responds
Communication. One word with the power to change situations. Use it. You can speak to your mum without appearing to be disrespectful or ungrateful. Tell her about the dreams and plans you have and hear her out. She is just a concerned mother. Sometimes, our darling guardians do not know when to stop because they love us all day every day. Speak truthfully, boldly and you will see how much you are loved.
Dear Tete
