The ManicaPost
Dear Tete
For two whole years I have not had my husband in my home to either treat me as his wife or to spend time with our children.
In 2014, my husband came home one day at 6pm after work, he packed his closet out and put it in the truck he uses from his workplace. I did not understand what was going on at that time and up to this day I still cannot put the pieces together.
All I remember is that he was quiet the whole time and did not respond to any of my questions. He has since moved in with a woman and they are expecting a baby. I do not care that he has a new family, I just want to know what I did wrong to deserve this?
Tete Barbara Responds:
No-one deserves to be rejected and left in a web that is mentally, but also emotionally demanding. Unanswered questions can take a toll on your day to day performance as an individual.
You need to realise that perhaps your partner does not want to address this situation or even explain his position. It is unfair, but you have to move on for you and your children, but this must never be the reason for your downfall.
If you are determined to find closure, then you must take steps towards wrapping up the incident and live. Reach out to a professional counsellor for help in your journey towards freedom, success and growth.
If you really must, you may try calling for a family intervention so as to get the answers you need. Having said that, understand that some things are better left unknown. He left you and your children with no explanation or apology. Move on.
All the best.
