The ManicaPost
Dear tete
I made the biggest mistake of my life when I cheated on my wife with her best friend. I admit I was wrong, but now I am in need of deliverance from this crazy demonic woman. It all started after my wife had a baby.
I fell into this trap and I cannot move out of it. My wife’s friend calls me whenever she likes, comes to my house for sleepovers under the disguise of being a friend and worse more we do have a child together. At times when she sleeps over, she demands that I sleep with her with her right under my wife’s nose. I want to confess to my wife, but I am afraid of her reaction because I still love her.
Tete Barbara Responds:
This is indeed a tricky issue or better a sticky one. You are sitting on a needle in the middle of an ocean full of sharks. All the same help from above is not out of reach. You have to break up with this woman immediately in order to regain your sanity and independence. You cannot continue living a life of fear, hideous drama and lies. The reality of your situation is that you are going to lose something and that is a small price you must pay for you to regain your freedom. Tell your wife the truth if you love her as you say, but be prepared to lose either her or her trust in you. Your approach will determine the outcome, so tread carefully if you desire to preserve a few things for the future, Remember your wife also deserves to know that her so-called best friend is a snake in the grass. It is not easy, but not impossible. If indeed you are the father of her child, be responsible as a dad, giving your fatherly commitment to all your children. A relationship with your child is something you cannot evade at all. He or she is an innocent bystander in a feud you started on your own. Be strong my friend all will be well. Find a good counsellor to help you and your wife as you try to mend your lives.
Be Free!
