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Dear Tete Barbara
My house is the worst place to be for me and my children because my wife talks too much. From the break of dawn till she finally goes out or to bed she is angry.I am so happy to leave the house in the morning but hate going back. When I married her she was a sweet woman but over the years she has turned into a shouting monster constantly swearing at the children, me or the maid for nothing. Please help me because I am contemplating leaving her.
Tete Responds
I am sorry that you feel unhappy in your home but look at it from another angle. Put yourself in your wife’s shoes and imagine what her life must be like.Talk to her with love and find out what is frustrating her.
Take her out to dinner or away for a weekend,cuddle her and pamper her a little more than usual reminding her of the things you love about her. When she is relaxed it may be easier to find out what’s bothering her.
She probably just feels left out and exhausted organising things at home. Give her credit for the good she does and please don’t go against her in the presence of the children rather support her when she is right. A little love can tame a monster… lol.
Hang in there.
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