‘My manhood is too small’

Ann Ruthenburg —
HELP! My wife is not satisfied because she says my manhood is too small. Please Marriage Dr help me. I have tried eating mazondo and all those things, but to no avail.

I have also tried taking tablets etc., that reportedly enlarge my manhood,  but there is no change. Please, I am afraid that she will leave me or have an affair.

Okay folks out there, this is not funny! There are more men out there who are worried about the size of their manhood than they care to admit.

And yes, this is an issue in many marriages. Unfortunately when a man tells me that his wife does not seem to be satisfied with their sexual life, the first two things I think about are: (a) his technique and romance and (b) His size!.

Yes, there are women out there who have the same dilemma and appreciate a man with a so-called “normal or less than normal size manhood.” But many women especially after giving birth will admit that the size of their men’s private area matters.

Now is this fixable? Yes of course? And no, it is not necessarily through medical assistance. But before I move on, let me say that the size of your manhood only matters if you are failing to romance your woman before being intimate and if you are failing to satisfy her.

Many women may not even know that you are smaller than normal if you put her needs first during intimacy and if you change positions and make it fun.

There is more than one position to be applied during intimacy, so use them as long as your partner does not feel abused.

Now if you still feel you need to grow it, the best thing is exercise it…yes, you heard me! And I do not mean you have to have lots of sleeping around, although if you are married this helps.

There are many exercises you can do on the right section of your manhood, that will encourage it to grow, but it will take time. Just a note here, that mazondo etc., are aphrodisiacs, which is not the same as taking something to grow your length. Aphrodisiacs help you perform better sexually, that is all.

They give you stamina, just like Ginseng and similar herbs. Just be careful that you are not fooled by “Old wives tales.”

Caution though, exercising alone can do far more damage than good. Perhaps you have tried exercises before and have seen little or no results. That is because your body has not been ready to repair itself. So you will need to then take supplements in addition (any chemist will have them such as Ginseng and Iron).

The main aim is to get as much nutrient-rich blood and oxygen into your manhood as possible.

This nutrient rich blood will support the cells in your manhood to expand and repair as quickly as possible. And just like during puberty (which is when major manhood growth happens), new cells will be created.

Miracles on this issue will not happen overnight. No, this takes time. Imagine going to the gym. One only sees results after weeks of training. This is the same thing. Give it one or two months before deciding whether it works or not.

Now having said all this, I must add here again, that the size of your manhood matters more to men than women. You just need to romance her, use different techniques and know where to touch her to make her come with you.

Learn to enjoy each other and satisfy the other first, then you in turn will be satisfied. Intimacy is not a one-sided thing.

It is two people engaging in intimacy most of the time. So take your time with each other, show some love. Be spontaneous.

Hope this helps you Sir, so to the rest of you, that is it from me this week folks, until next week, God Bless!
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