The ManicaPost
Dear Tete Barbara
My boyfriend is cheating with my cousin and I am frustrated. I have no proof but I know that they are sleeping together but I cannot confront them without evidence. Tete, I am hurt inside more and more each day I see them together in town and at parties.
Why would my boyfriend be more comfortable with my cousin than with me and her with him? I will not dump Jim so that they can be free together but I know I will catch them soon!
Tete Responds
II is sad indeed that you are feeling the way you are. Perhaps your emotions are coming out of jealousy and we all know what jealousy can make one delusional.
On the other hand you could be on to something but without proof you have no case. I think you need to speak to your partner and your cousin separately expressing your feelings concerning their relationship.
How do they spend more time together without you? That is a cause for concern and it needs to be addressed unless they have had a long standing relationship from before you started dating.
You have to let your boyfriend know that you love him and that you sometimes feel a bit jealous when you see him with other women. Having said that if you truly feel that they are in a relationship, would you not rather walk out with minimal injuries than to be scarred for life after marriage?
Be Smart!
