My husband is a gossiper

The ManicaPost

Barbara Vhengedza From My Heart
Dear Tete
My husband is a big GOSSIPER with very destructive motives. This man lies through his teeth about everything. My husband’s loose tongue has wrecked homes and now it is threatening my relationship with my family members. I am tired of his pathetic behaviour and I am ready to leave. He has told lies about how my parents lured him to marry me. I am fed up!

Tete Responds:
Men gossip too! Yes, they do and the gossip can be destructive to lives. It is sad that your husband has this unfavourable habit. Speak to him. Do not attack him as this may seem as if you are just out to get him. Tell him how his gossipy behaviour is ruining your trust, love and respect for him. Show him how your relationships are now strained because of his utterances. Be patient with him, because, perhaps he does not even realise that he is being destructive. At the end of the day, you know the true extent of the damage.

All The Best.