Barbara Vhengedza From My Heart
FROM My Heart is a platform created for you to share your issues and get practical assistance. Together we can create brighter lives and happier people, transforming mindsets one day at a time. Send your heart to heart message to Tete Barbara and read her responses.
I am a miserable woman living a terrible life. I have a secret that has been tormenting me for years. I believe I am the reason behind my husband’s death. He was a good man who provided well for me and the kids. Sadly, I was ungrateful and greedy. I wanted more than he gave me. My husband found me being intimate with a colleague of his from work and decided to commit suicide by consuming poison. He did not speak to anyone or leave any note. No-one suspected me of having a hand in his death, but I know the real reason. I am tormented!
People make mistakes everyday. People hurt people everywhere. People regret certain actions every time. It is never easy to remove guiltiness from one’s conscience. We must think before we act to avoid living with burdens that are unbearable. Forgive yourself and understand that your partner equally had his own issues. Find a professional counsellor to help you.