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Tete Barbara From My Heart
Dear Tete
I feel like no-one will ever love me because I am too fat . . . No guy has shown interest in me. The only relationship I have been in ended abruptly after the guy ended up cheating on me.
I cry almost every night because I feel like I will never be loved by a guy . . . or have a guy to protect, take care of me, wants to cuddle with me, kiss me or hug me. I know this sounds really petty,but it is true. I do have a great personality and I have a tone of friends who even say so. I just don’t understand why I cannot get a guy. I feel undeserving. It is really hard to explain all the feelings I have on this. It really bothers me. Why can’t a guy like a girl my size?
Tete Responds:
I know a lot of plus size girls who are confident, beautiful and outgoing. Understand and embrace your body. Surround yourself with people who boost your moral and people who will tell you what looks good on you. If a man really loves you, he will not care about your size. Men can tell when you lack self confidence, so the next time you go out, make sure you are full of energy and out to play the game. You can also find a diet and exercise plan that works for you, just to make you feel extra good. All the same, enjoy yourself, enjoy life and be the happy person that you are.
Enjoy life.
