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Tete Barbara From My Heart
Dear Tete
I recently started seeing someone new after getting out of a lengthy relationship. This guy is perfect. He is everything I have been looking for in a relationship. A few nights ago, things started getting a little hot and heavy and we ended up in his bedroom. The tension between the two of us was huge.
Things were moving pretty fast. I had been anticipating this moment for so long until I saw what I was working with: an extremely small “shoe”. I haven’t had many sexual partners, but I know when a shoe is small. This situation was totally new to me. I have never faked an orgasm like that in my life. Now, I am terrified and afraid to get married to him. How do I handle his small member without ruining our future together?
Tete Responds:
Size isn’t everything. For some people, it may be a non-issue. You need to communicate with your partner physically and verbally. Touch is an integral part of a union. It is important for you and your partner to seek professional counselling together. Do not lose hope. As long as you love him, there is no reason for you to break up. Perhaps your partner also needs separate counselling to help him understand how he can effectively participate in your union. There are certain positions that make things easier.
All the best
