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Barbara Vhengedza From My Heart
FROM My Heart is a platform created for you to share your issues and get practical assistance. Together we can create brighter lives and happier people, transforming mindsets one day at a time. Send your heart to heart message to Tete Barbara and read her responses.
Dear Tete
I deeply loved, respected and trusted the woman I married. Recently, she travelled out of town on a work trip and forgot her precious cellphone at home. At first I thought nothing about it as I browsed through her phone. After I realised a few sinister call patterns from one number, I then decided to search deeper. After digging deeper, I managed to uncover nudes and messages that she was sending and also receiving from her lover who is a married workmate. I loved her, but now I am done, broken and left ashamed. My imagination will not allow me to forgive and forget.
Tete Responds:
It is so sad when you discover that your trust is misplaced in a person who does not reciprocate. Some people are selfish and only consider their personal feelings. They want the best of everything from everyone every time. You need to move out of the regret phase you are in right now and move into one that is of appreciation. It may sound wrong, but you must be appreciative of the fact that you have found out the truth about your lover. Now, make peace with the whole situation and converse with your wife. Hear her side of the story, speak your own and come to a conclusion. Do not leave this issue unresolved!
Find inner peace!
