Accident destroyed my marriage

24 Feb, 2017 - 00:02 0 Views
Accident destroyed my marriage tete babra

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From My Heart is a platform created for you to share your issues and get practical assistance. Together we can create brighter lives and happier people, transforming mind sets one day at a time. Send your heart to heart message to Tete Barbara and read her responses.

Dear Tete Barbara
I have been married for the 13 years. We have two lovely daughters and a son who are our pride and joy. We were married both traditionally and in church as well. My problem began in 2016 when I had an accident with my two brothers that left me crippled. My hip dislocated and I also had many other complications which include one that left my upper lip deformed. My husband supported me at first, but gradually became more distant until he totally cut himself away from me. He drinks more and spends lesser time with me and the kids. I am lonely in a country filled with only strangers. Sometimes I want to come back home, but I am 47 years old and well established here and I need my family close by. Help me!

Tete Barbara Responds
It is very sad indeed that you have been scarred, not just physically, but also emotionally by the accident. No one plans for an accident to happen, hence the word itself. First, know that you have people who love you in your children, your friends, family and even your husband. Yes, your husband does love you, but perhaps he needs to work through the event that led to your current situation. He, like you also requires a few sessions of professional counselling to help him accept what has happened to you. Remember, it did not just affect you alone, but those close to you. Arrange for a family therapy session so that you can all open up about your personal feelings in order to find closure.
Love is still alive!

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